Dating women who smoke
Of course I knew that she did this years before she met me and I had no right to preach and make someone do something they did not want to do. I imagine if she smoked half a pack a day it would of been a lot easier to deal with, but if every time we went outside and at every 30 min incrament she had to light up, you can see how this was a problem for a non smoker dating her!
She tells me that she finally realizes that she needs to quit and she wants to do it, but that she needs to do it for herself and not for me or others. Do years or decades need to pass before she is finally ready? I do not think she will ever quit smoking any time soon...
I just could not sit and watch her do this to herself.
She then finally decided to try to quit on Chantix and it lasted 2 months (boy were the side effects horrific!
I tried to over look it as we seemed to hit it off pretty well.
Well since I only saw her once a week, I found out several weeks later how much of an addict she was.