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When I first came to Turkey, I was given no warning about how typical Turkish men would act.
I wondered if they would be anything like American men, the only type I knew, or if the culture would alter their personality completely.
Now in America and in the UK, jealousy is a green monster that most people have a strong distaste for.
Here in Turkey, if you are not jealous of whom your partner speaks to, looks at, or hangs out with, it is the equivalent of raising a small flag that states, “I don’t love him/her.” It also doesn’t matter how many times you try and explain the cultural difference—they won’t change their minds.
Because of this jealousy you have to be careful of who you hang out with because…
If you have tea with a guy after a class and someone sees you together—and they most certainly will—within the hour your classmates, your school, and all of your friends will have found out.
These are simply my experiences in my small city outside of Istanbul.If you say no to them once, they will ask again, or they will lie low until you notice them again.To me this was so bizarre because in the States most men get anxious even asking a girl out (kudos to those who have the courage to take that risk).Jealousy is part of their culture and a fact of life.If you are dating a Turkish man or woman, there are no other men or women that exist anymore.