Black anal sex dating
While there seems to be no data explicitly on female anal orgasms (shocking, I know.Like come on, it’s 2015), many women report that ass-fucking allows for a unique kind of G-spot stimulation that can be orgasmic in and of itself.(*as long as it’s consensual, but come on, do I really have to specify that?) Some women do report stronger orgasms as a direct result of anal sex.Some men enjoy external stimulation only, such as analingus or anal massage, and other guys don’t find any pleasure there at all.A man has just as much right to his preference for certain sexual acts over others as a woman does because we are all human beings who enjoy different things.I’m sure there are many more reasons why a woman might enjoy anal sex, but frankly I don’t really care about them.If someone tells me they like something, I am prone to believing them.
Many humans of all genders take immense pleasure in seeing the person they’re fucking having a grand time.
Men are held to such rigid standards of masculinity that often imply that any behavior that might appear “gay” or “feminine,” such as being the penetratee rather than the penetrator, is a threat to their very status as a man.
That’s particularly fucked up when you think about it because it means men are being conditioned to fear one of their own body parts.
Another complaint the original Urban Dater author had was that many guys subscribe to a double-standard regarding anal penetration.
“I know men that freak out when people even joke about going near their anal cavity,” she writes, “yet have no problem encouraging a woman to take it up the ass.” I actually tend to agree with her on this particular gripe, although I believe there is a far more complex system at work here for which it is not entirely fair to blame men as individuals.